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October 19, 2010Works by Gang Badoy, Mon Guinto, Tammy David and Gerhard Bandiola for Rock Ed Philippines
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I wish this issue didn’t have to exist.
It’s been a year since our good friends Alexis Tioseco and Nika Bohinc were murdered in their home. Up until now, there has been no movement on the case and none of us know why they were killed. All I know is that it wasn’t a robbery and that the authorities have not done a proper investigation. I should know. Along with the Tioseco family, I’ve met too many police officials, bureaucrats, investigators, lawyers, politicians, psychics, and inept people named Agnes to say otherwise.
Alexis, in particular, meant a lot to those of us here in UNO. He’d even sit in during our editorial meetings. (See picture.) He was very much a part of what this magazine was all about, why we all chose to take on the challenge of doing it. But our friendship with him went well beyond working together. At least for me, he was no less than a brother. And I’m lucky that I was able to tell him that I loved him before he died. I told it to him quite often actually and he never gave up on me even when I gave up on myself.
It’s also with heavy hearts that we mark the recent death of another friend, cinematographer Miguel Fabie III. Miguel wrote to me last year, shortly after Alexis died. The letter is excerpted below:
Dear Erwin—
I met [Alexis] after one of the first screenings of Batang West Side—he approached me, introduced himself, commended me, then slowly… in editing lingo—“dissolved to black.” That was my first feature film and though he sounded like he knew what he was talking about, I was taken aback by this young punk who seemed so sincere and passionate that my selective-memoried brain decided to keep him in its archives.
Anyway, in his case praise came across not as something to feed my ego but actually inspired me to better my craft. The same way Eddie Romero did on our first introduction when he commented about the same flick (Batang W.S.)—“Young man, either you’re extremely stupid and just plain lucky, or a genius”… To this day, I am trying to prove it’s not the former. The latter is something I believe is a DNA thing; you can’t work to be a genius, but you CAN work to be a better cinematographer/writer/musician/doctor ON YOUR OWN TERMS.
In [his famous letter], Alexis hoped that he and Nika would be together in/’till “the end.” Maybe they’re just beginning, but if this is the first step toward that direction or a major leap to the eternal we have yet to find out for ourselves in OUR own time, willingly or otherwise. Wake up call: get ready to be willing.
May we ALL rest in peace, in WHATEVER stage or phase in life.
Peace,
Miguel
I couldn’t agree with Miguel more though it’s tough for those of us they left behind.
In that Alexis-written piece reprinted in this issue in its definitive form, he says that “There’s a line in Aguila where a Moro secessionist is told his cause is lost. He replies that winning doesn’t matter, it’s doing what one feels one should do. That’s wisdom for you.”
With this issue we mourn, we mark, we reminisce, we remind. Let not another year pass before justice is done. We fight, not just against forgetfulness and the apathy that follows, but because it is what we feel we should do.
Here’s to Alexis, Nika and Miguel. And, yes, we’ll keep on going no matter what. ‘Till we hopefully meet again.
Erwin Romulo
Editor-in-Chief
ON THE COVER
Very special thanks to Rhian Ramos and Gaby Dela Merced, for being our cover subjects for this special issue, and helping us in our continuing efforts to call for justice for the murders of Alexis Tioseco and Nika Bohinc. Rhian was glad to be of help, and described their deaths as “a tragic loss.” And as Gaby said of Alexis and Nika in her interview, “They both lived to make a difference, but it’s our turn to make our own contribution.”
Footage from Arnold Arre’s Chapter 1 featuring Erwin Romulo and Gang Badoy
An article by Charles A. Tan, originally appearing in UNO Magazine’s November issue. Video footage is from Arnold Arre’s short film titled Chapter 1. In this scene, Gang Badoy from RockEd Radio interviews Erwin Romulo’s character on the art of stalking.
First off, what’s so bad about stalking?
Some people have an aversion to the word “stalker” which I attribute to Western media. Sensationalized in movies and TV is the enigmatic stranger—typically male—who manages to sneak into your room and then eventually slits your throat. But honestly, when was the last time you heard of a Filipino serial killer? Most of our residences have tall looming gates (to say nothing of private subdivisions and villages) to keep the unwanted out. Nowadays, the term has become quite ubiquitous, with both genders using it. “I have a stalker on Friendster,” a girl might say, giggling if the stalker is cute, sighing if it’s the nth time some stranger adds them to their list of contacts. Guys, on the other hand, might use euphemisms to disguise their actions: researching and networking come to mind.
But honestly, in this day and age of the Internet where people can easily search you via Google, look up your profile in Facebook, browse through your photo collection in Flicker, read your journals at Blogger, and get minute-by-minute updates of your daily activities via Twitter or Plurk, how can it be called stalking when all that information is voluntarily made public? No one’s forcing you to upload your moments of drunken revelry up at Multiply or to broadcast to the world what music you’re listening to while logged on at Livejournal or Yahoo Messenger.
ONLINE
The following tools can be used:
OLD SCHOOL?
And guess what, everyone’s contributing to the phenomenon. Your company does a routine background check and even Googles your name just to check you’re not badmouthing them or their clients in your blog (especially not on company time). Your significant other (or potential suitor) might trace your electronic trail of ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends as well as eagerly patrolling your social network profile (why just the other day, someone found out their boyfriend broke up with them when he changed his status to single at Facebook). The very blogs you read or the friends you sent invites to certainly didn’t pop out of nowhere and necessitated some stalking tactics. Let’s not forget reality TV–we’re all voyeurs when it comes to Big Brother, which seems like an amalgam between the horrors of George Orwell and William Gibson—or *gasp* politics (Hello Garci).
The art of stalking is ultimately counter-productive, much like the ouroboros eating its own tail. To be a true stalker after all is to remain invisible and undetected. No stalker succeeds however and they eventually succumb to the temptation of sending the other party an “anonymous” text message, email, blog comment, or friend invite. And what happens to the stalker who never contacts their quarry? Are they satisfied masturbating to a Photoshopped photograph? Are they content in reading about their crush’s exploits but never talking to them? It honestly isn’t stalking if the other person doesn’t know you’re around (for one thing, they don’t know they should be mad at you).
The alternative of course is to come clean. You tell them you’re a stalker. They’ll think you’re being cute if you’re attractive. Otherwise you’re simply an annoyance beneath their notice. Just look at Google. Everyone knows they know every term you’ve searched, every website you’ve visited, and even the contents of your email for Gmail users. Does that stop you from using their services or buying stocks in their company? Welcome to stalking in the 21st century!

Poster designed by Cynthia Bauzon-Arre (check out our June issue feature 52 Women On Top to read about her)